Sunday, October 31, 2010

Seasons of Change

If you're the mother of little ones, then you're no doubt finding yourself in a season of continual change. You can go through days when you feel like you're climbing Everest - with multiple kids on your back - and others that are more like drifting slowly and steadily down the Guadalupe (okay, there are probably far fewer of these). You can go through seasons when a new baby, a big move, or the death of a close family member or friend can throw your life into such upheaval that you can no longer easily discern which way is up. Our family has been through many fairly dramatic changes recently and I have been extremely encouraged by the following books and audio on change.

*Seasons of Change, Seasons of Grace, by Georgia Settle
This book is written by a woman who has clearly experienced many seasons of change herself. Through much wisdom and insight she challenges Christians to remain positive even through life's toughest trials because when everything else around us changes, our good and gracious Father remains the same.

*All Things for Good, by Thomas Watson
While this book does not explicitly speak about change, it is a wonderful reminder - in the midst of change - that, "We know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose." Romans 8:28

*In Every Season of Life (mp3), Carolyn Mahaney
This is a fabulous message for young moms who seek guidance in how to be intentional with this season of life.
http://www.sovereigngracestore.com/ProductInfo.aspx?productid=A2077-01-51

Saturday, October 30, 2010

An Addendum (Only Really Helpful for Those With Little Boys)

I spent the afternoon in Toys 'R Us by myself. The plan was for me to look around and (potentially) purchase birthday and/or Christmas gifts for the boys. I couldn't resist adding this post to share what we got for them.

For our soon-to-be three-year-old:
We got a Hot Wheels track. He's obsessed with cars and we think he's going to love it.

For both boys for Christmas (ages 1 and 3):
We got a table top foosball table (see link below). It was only $25 and while it's recommended for ages 8-10, we think they're going to have fun just knocking the ball around with the little players.

http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=4331148

If you have any ideas for little ones, or adults even, please feel free to leave a comment. I'd love to hear!

E-mealz

I recently heard about a website that will provide you with 7-day dinner meal plans for 4-6 people or a 5-day meal plan for 2 people. If you dread coming up with menus each week and want to simplify this area of your life, then you've hit the jackpot with e-mealz! There is a small fee of $1.25/week, but the savings of time and money could definitely be worth it for you and your family!

Here's an excerpt from the e-mealz website:

"E-Mealz has been created to provide a kid-friendly and family-uniting meal planning resource for busy Moms and frugal family cooks. Each meal plan is based on the current sales at the grocery stores, with plan options categorized according to store and/or weight management strategy. The recipes are delicious, simple and easy to follow. Each plan is new every week and has a corresponding aisle-by-aisle grocery list. Almost every week includes a crock-pot recipe and easy dinner ideas. There are meal plans for two people, for a low fat diet, a low carb diet, and for those who are following a point system, as well!"

http://www.e-mealz.com/

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Shop Now and Save (Your Sanity) Later

Next week is November and while it is VERY, VERY hard to believe, the holidays are right around the corner. Before the stores get too hectic and the traffic gets too bad, beat the crowds and save yourself some time and avoid the headaches that can often accompany holiday season shopping.

What to do now:

1. Make a list. Keep a list of all of the people to whom you will be giving gifts. Start brainstorming ideas and use this as a reference when it comes time to buy. This might even give you time to think outside the box! For example, instead of giving your dad another tie, you could give him a "gift certificate" for a day with you. Treat him to lunch and then take him to a movie or to play golf.
2. Take your children to a toy store and let them roam around. Watch closely and note which toys they are most drawn to. Make a list and go back to the store later to purchase the items.
3. Tear out pages from magazines with gift possibilities. Organize these in an accordion folder with a section for each family member and/or friend.
4. Capitalize on the opportunity to give. Instead of thinking of giving as a chore, take advantage of the chance you have to show someone that you really put some thought and effort into their gift. Thoughtfulness goes farther than money spent!

Gift ideas for little ones (ages 1-4, approximately):

*Nerf dart launchers (Nerf N-Strike Maverick Blaster)
*Wooden or plastic table and chairs
*Sensory ball
*Books (make it a tradition to give each child a special book every Christmas)
*Toy medical kit
*Little People
*Legos
*Toy cash register
*Sit 'N Spin (Playskool)
*Puppet show stage and puppets
*Grocery cart with groceries
*Magic kit
*Accessories to an item that they already have (e.g. for a train set or doll house)
*Scooter and helmet
*Dress-up costumes
*Melissa and Doug toys/puzzles
*Leap Frog
*Tent and tunnel
*Playdough activity kit
*Easel and art supplies
*Pet fish
*Bean bags
*Tool box
*Soccer goal/ball, basketball goal/ball, golf set, etc.
*Musical instruments
*Board games: Hungry Hippo, Hi-Ho Cherry-O, Chutes and Ladders, Candyland (even if your child is younger, you can modify the rules until he/she is older)

Where to shop:

*Target
*Marshalls, TJ Maxx, Steinmart, Tuesday Morning
*Dollar Store
*Kid's Consignment Shops
*Sam's/Costco
*Craigslist
*On-line

**Don't forget to look for coupons on-line before you shop. Keep them in a small accordion folder in your pocketbook or your car so they will be accessible whenever you're able to get to the stores.

Buy now:

These books are great for preparing yourself/your family for the Christmas season. Or you can give them as gifts!
*Treasuring God in our Traditions, Noel Piper
*Come Thou Long Expected Jesus, Nancy Guthrie
*The Christmas Lover's Handbook, Lasley Gober (This is a shameless plug for my mom's book that is no longer in print! I've found it on Amazon.com in recent years though, so it's worth a try!)

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Disciplining Your Darlings

Whether you're cuddling with your newborn or running around chasing your toddler, you've likely thought a lot about how you will raise your children. If you're looking for literature to help guide you in this endeavor, I've got a few recommendations (see below). But the one that I'm focusing on today is Don't Make Me Count to Three by Ginger Plowman. Her book couples wit and wisdom to assist you in your heart motivation and actions as your child's primary disciplinarian.

To save you some suspense, she doesn't condone the "count to three" method. Instead she uses and, I think, brilliantly applies Scripture to train her children. After all, Plowman reminds us, "God uses His Word in order to convict His children. Therefore when our children sin, we should use God's Word in order that they might be convicted." Do you beat your kids over the head with the Bible? Absolutely not. Rather, she encourages you to study Scripture so that you will be equipped in the "heat of the moment" to apply the appropriate Biblical response. The goal is that your child will gradually learn how to respond on his/her own, thereby living out the apostle Paul's prayer for the church in Phillipi, "That your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ." (Phil. 1:9-10)

Recommendations:
*"Don't Make Me Count to Three!" by Ginger Plowman
*Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp
*The Baby Whisperer Solves All Your Problems by Tracy Hogg and Melinda Blau
*The New Dare to Discipline by Dr. James Dobson
*Parenting by the Book by John Rosemond

Monday, October 25, 2010

Weekly Recipes

Here are some easy and delicious recipes - one for each course. Bon appetit!

South Georgia Caviar
This is the perfect game-day snack, but it can be used as an appetizer or side as well.

2 cans black eyed peas
1 can black beans
1 can Rotel tomatoes or 1 can of diced tomatoes
3/4 of a green pepper
small bunch of green onions, chopped
2 small cans of shoepeg corn or 1 big can of shoepeg corn
Italian dressing, to taste

Combine all ingredients and serve with chips.

Roasted Winter Squash
This is a seasonal side that tastes great with just about any main dish.

Prep: 10 min. Bake: 35 min.

Preheat oven to 450 degrees.
3 lbs. butternut, acorn or spaghetti squash
1 T. butter or margarine, melted
1/2 T. honey
1/4 t. salt
1/4 t. pepper

Remove stem from squash. Cut squash in half lengthwise; remove and discard seeds. Cut each half into 4 wedges, and place on an aluminum foil-lined jelly-roll pan. (If using spaghetti squash, cut each half into 2 wedges.)
Stir together butter and honey until blended. Brush squash evenly with butter mixture; sprinkle evenly with salt and pepper.
Bake at 450 degrees for 30-35 minutes or until tender, turning once.
Cut skins from squash wedges and discard.

Gumbo with Chicken and Andouille Sausage
There are a lot of ingredients in this one, but it is delicious and should provide several meals.

2 cups white enriched rice, prepared to package directions
2 T. extra-virgin olive oil
3/4 lb. chicken tenders, diced
3/4 lb. boneless, skinless chicken thighs, diced (3 thighs)
Salt and fresh ground black pepper, to taste
2 t. poultry seasoning
3/4-1 lb. andouille sausage (4 links, with casings removed), diced
3 T. butter
3 ribs celery from the heart of the bunch, chopped
2 green bell peppers, seeded and diced
1 large onion, peeled and chopped
2 bay leaves, fresh or dried
2 T. cayenne pepper sauce (optional)
3 T. flour
1 qt. chicken stock or broth
2 cups chopped okra, fresh or frozen, defrosted
1 can (14 oz.) crushed tomatoes
1 can (14 oz.) diced tomatoes
2-3 T. fresh thyme leaves (several sprigs), chopped
5 scallions, thinly sliced on an angle

Preheat a large heavy-bottomed pot over medium-high heat. Add 2 T. oil, twice around the pan, and the diced chicken. Season with salt and pepper and a sprinkle of poultry seasoning. Brown on all sides, about 2 or 3 minutes. Chop your veggies while it’s working. Add the andouille to the pan and cook another minute or two. Transfer chicken and sausage to a dish.

Return pan to heat and add butter. When the butter melts, add chopped celery, peppers, onion and bay. Season with salt and pepper and hot sauce. Cook 3-5 minutes to begin to soften veggies. Add flour and cook for 2 minutes. Slowly stir in the broth and bring to a boil. Add okra to the broiling broth, then return the meats to the pot and stir in tomatoes and half of your fresh thyme. When it’s bubbling, reduce heat and simmer for 5 minutes to combine flavors, then adjust your seasonings.

Scoop cooked white rice into the center of bowlfuls of gumbo using an ice cream scoop. Setting the rice on top of the gumbo will keep it from getting too wet. Top with remaining chopped thyme and lots of chopped scallions.

Chocolate Chip Pumpkin Bread
This recipe will produce two loaves of autumn delight! If you're really ambitious, you can use real pumpkin instead of canned!

3/4 c. butter
2-1/2 c. sugar
4 eggs
1 lb. can pumpkin
2/3 c. water
3-1/2 c. unbleached flour
2 t. baking soda
1-1/2 t. salt
1-1/2 t. baking powder
1 t. cinnamon
1 t. ground cloves
1 pkg. Ghirardelli chocolate chips (You can use other brands. This is my mom's recipe and
she's partial to Ghirardelli.)

Cream butter and sugar and add one egg at the time, beating thoroughly. Mix in pumpkin and water. Combine remaining ingredients in separate bowl. Mix well. Stir into pumpkin mixture, blending thoroughly. Stir in chocolate chips to even distribution. Grease and flour two loaf pans. Pour in batter. Bake at 350 degrees for approximately 1 hour (until toothpick comes out clean). Cool 15 minutes in pan.

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Method for Prayer

If you're a busy mom, then you might be finding it difficult to make time throughout the day to pray. And if you do pray, it's more likely one-liner supplications here and there (I'm drawing from my own experience here). If you desire to be more intentional with your prayer life (using more Scripture and praying through various parts of prayer - adoration, confession, petition, intercession, etc.), I've found a wonderful resource that will e-mail you a Scripture-filled prayer daily!

You can go to the following site to sign up!
http://www.matthewhenry.org/daily-devotional-emails/

Here's an encouraging quote that you'll find on the sign-up page:
"Praying the thoughts, concerns, and language of the Scriptures back to the true and living God who breathed them out: What a great way to root your heart and mind in truth as you begin each day!"